Are you looking for marriage counseling? Discover how to save your marriage and stop your divorce now, even if you are the only one who wants to.
What marriage counseling should accomplish for you.
Successful marriage counseling should accomplish the following tasks. During a marriage counseling session your marriage counselor should, identify key problems, offer understandable and practical advice and teach you step-by-step, how to get started saving your marriage. Here are a few key things to keep in mind before you go to marriage counseling.
During your marriage counseling you need to be able to identify the cause of your marital stress. Whether you and your spouse struggle with fighting, communications problems or infidelity, during marriage counseling you need to be willing to be honest and take responsibility.
marriage counseling will only help you if you are willing to engage with your marriage counseling expert and take responsibility.
Here’s why…let’s say during the marriage counseling session this comes to the surface.
Let’s pretend that your perceived problem is your spouse’s jealousy and that your question is “Why doesn’t my spouse trust me? Why can’t s/he just accept my word that I’m faithful?”
The marriage counselor might say that this is the wrong question! The REAL questions is: What are you doing, intentionally or not, to arouse your spouse’s suspicions? The marriage counselor might ask what you are NOT doing to demonstrate your trust worthiness?
Maybe you are free from wrongdoing. If that is the case, what else is going on in your marriage, or with each of you, that is destroying the trust between you?
The answer might have nothing to do with infidelity or the facts of your marriage. It could be rooted in someone’s childhood or previous adult relationships. Whatever the answer, a marriage counselor may help you find it.
However, we realize that marriage counseling is not available to everyone. Or, as we all know marriage counseling can be expensive.
So, what can Lasting Marriages do for you to help you now?
We want to help you in a way that no other marriage counseling resource may have done for you, and we do that by being thorough and making things remarkably simple to understand. Interested in learning more… visit our website by searching Lasting Marriages – Marriage Counseling Nanaimo.